The late professor Clayton Christensen warned against overinvesting in one’s career at the expense of other crucial aspects of life. His message resonates with many in our industry who, driven by ambition and market demands, often overlook the importance of nurturing intimate and loving family relationships until it’s too late.
I am determined not to fall into this common trap.
While I have always pursued excellence in my work and faith, as my children grow older, my attention has turned more squarely toward parenting. I aspire to be an excellent father, and I recognize that it requires a lot of work.
Eleven years into marriage, I concede it’s a challenging journey. Witnessing friends navigate divorce or marital discontent strengthens my resolve to cultivate a deeply fulfilling relationship, acknowledging that it demands continuous dedication.
Consequently, I am broadening my perspective on work. It’s not merely about how I earn a living; it extends to all aspects of my life that hold significance. Everything, in essence, is a form of work. This realization underscores the importance of perpetual learning and growth across all dimensions.
Midlife presents a crucial choice: either settling into routines or embracing new horizons. I wholeheartedly choose the latter.